Cue the montage of the two of you laughing, holding hands, and riding a tandem bicycle. Of course, in real life, lasting relationships tend to develop a bit less cinematically. When we meet someone we really like-someone with whom we have instant chemistry and infinite things to talk about-the desire to spend all of our time with that person right away can obviously be intense. But Seth Meyers, Psy. The logic? Is the once-a-week rule right for you? We asked Meyers and other relationship experts to delve deeper into why you should consider starting things off very slowly.
So yesterday after a weird morning with him One topic led to another and there we were talking about time spent together Anyways, in the end we both laughed about this So we agreed that even if we are both really busy, we should at least see each other twice a week minimum Morale of the story is that maybe you should come around to discussing the matter with him indirectly! Good luck dear, you never know what he can say and if he gives you some "I am too busy" bullshit excuse I have no idea how I'd deal with that, but I guess you're handling it well.
And no I haven't voiced my concerns yet because I think it's too early to have that conversation. But like I said above, I guess I might be wrong, although I dont know how I'd even bring it up without putting pressure on him.
Is transportation a problem, or too expensive? It did get difficult and expensive to drive all the time. I had a pickup truck and she lived in a different town. Then repeat the process to take her home. It was a pain in the ass. Her town was small with nothing.
Everything to do was in my city. I worked shift work. On Afternoons or midnights there would be no way it could work. So we mainly saw each other on weekends only.
Eventually she moved in after a couple of years when she was done school. My heart ached during the week though. We both showed big-time interest. But only I had a vehicle. So I can see his issue if money or time is a problem.
No, transportation isn't a problem. Thanks though for sharing your story. That sounds really tough and it's great that you guys were able to work things out. That's what I'm saying also, that you cared about her enough to have made that kind of effort.
Yes, you are right, your guy doesn't seem to care enough to want this to work. By rights, you should be the most important person to him, not his friends!
So if he is prioritizing his time with them instead of you, at least you know where you stand.
I did have a girlfriend in college, and she was all about hanging with her friend all the time and left us little alone time. I dropped her pretty quick! Don't waste too much of you time! Been dating this guy for a couple months, but we only see each other once a week.
At first that was okay, but at some point I'm going to want more.
He texts and checks in everyday, but I'm lucky if I get so much as a phone call since we started seeing each other he used to call every other night, at least. We were friends for 6 months prior to dating, so you could say I knew what I was getting into: that he's very busy with other things in his life.
I know he's trying, but at what point does being busy become an excuse? At what point am I being "understanding" and at what point am I just settling for whatever scraps of time he can give me?
My question is, how would you handle my situation? Would you walk away before it hurts even more?
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Oct 28, I think youre being dumb. If he's still friends with his ex he probably still sees her (if you know what i mean). How old are you. I don't know he probably is a nice guy but i wouldnt trust him if he only sees you once a month, what kinda Sh*t is that. The guy i'm dating only sees me once a week - Register and search over 40 million singles: chat. How to get a good woman. It is not easy for women to find a good man, and to be honest it is not easy for a man to find a good woman. Find a woman in my area! Free to join to find a man and meet a man online who is single and seek you. May 07, The week rule is a standard rule I tell women to use to tell where you stand with someone and when they should expect a relationship. It goes as the following: Week 1. The first week the guy is "feeling you out" and the scenario. Men usually p.
I live 1 hour's away. We were acquaintances 1. We text and talk every day. I like not texting too much because i think texting all the time makes you feel closer than you really are and it can cloud your judgment in the beginning. He had a really busy week and we checked in on Wednesday today is Fridayand I initiated that conversation.
Since I asked him out last week, reached out during the week, and he is the one with the busier schedule, I feel like I should have heard from him by now if he expects to see me tomorrow. Once a week at 2 months seems okay. Give it another month or two and then expect things to got to twice a week.
Are you exclusive yet? Anna Marie - no, once a month is not enough for a relationship. How old are you? You need to think about how much you like him verse being alone. I live an hour and a half from my guy who i have been seeing for abput 3 months. We first saw each other every week for first month but now due to home life i only see him once a forniggt.
I am still sharing the house i own with my ex and dobt have a place of my own my new guy has said thst when i do he will come tp me is mu new guy really into me. It all depends on you and your schedule. I only see mine once a week due to our busy schedules with work and school. Has he asked you to be exclusive? Name required :. Mail will not be published required :. The material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by A New Mode, Inc.
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It really depends on the man and my schedule, to be honest. October 21, at pm Reply.
I m dating this guy for 4 weeks.N yes he only texts me once a week. So i have seen him 4 times and i slept with him on every date. I'm starting to feel like i'm jut his 'booty call'.He's an expat living in . he lives like 10 minutes away, only see him maybe 1 night a week, we text like once a day but he never calls me, like ever. I need more sex than 1 night a week too, before him I was having sex almost daily, and this lack of sex is putting me on edge. Jan 12, Meyers calls it "the once-a-week rule." For the first month that you're dating someone new, only see each other once a week. The logic? When we .
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Been dating this guy for a couple months, but we only see each other once a week. At first that was okay, but at some point I'm going to want more. He texts and checks in everyday, but I'm lucky if I get so much as a phone call since we started seeing each other (he used to call every other night, at least). Jul 25, I am happy that I see him weekly (I used to date a guy who would only see me once every 2 or 3 weeks, drove me crazy, never again. It is what led me to this forum and change of mindset). But I would like to eventually see him 2 or 3 times a week, depending how it goes.
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What should I do with this guy who sees me only once a month?
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