Every time you thought they were done for good, an Insta pic woulds pop up and prove you wrong. They were on and off and then on again so many times, it was hard to keep track of their status. Now that they are officially over, however, and Justin is off married to Hailey Baldwin , it is still fun to reminisce at the iconic relationship that was Jelena. Justin recently took to Instagram to call out an account that was bullying him online, but in the process he revealed something very interesting about his relationship with his ex. As you can see in the pic, Justin isn't following Selena on Insta.
So how did things change so drastically?
There's a lot to it. Here, a breakdown of all the Jelena drama since the pair's final big breakup in October Gomez and Bieber are on-off in fallbut one of their last major sightings was in Paris. They came there together for fashion week. But then Bieber was spotted getting lunch with Kendall Jenner aloneamid tabloid rumors Jenner and Gomez were having a falling out over Jenner's close relationship with Bieber. Jenner, inwould come out and say that she and Bieber never dated. Gomez suddenly leaves Paris alone after suggesting via a cryptic tweet that she and Bieber- who reportedly had just made it official again weeks before -are done.
Sometimes we think we aren't good enough. Bieber hints, a year later in an interview with i-d magazinehis cheating on her may have been a factor:. The video's emotional beginning voiceover hints at the pain she went through being on-off with him:. Gomez tells Ryan Seacrest that wasn't scripted: "They taped the mic underneath the table when I was shooting the video.
And I had shot the video over a year ago. So, in that state-where I was in that place emotionally-I went in and I went into the room by myself, and I looked at the actual mirror in the music video, and I had a conversation [with] myself to every question I had in my mind in that moment: 'Wow, this feeling changes everything and you can't help it. Gomez said Bieber "has heard [the song] and he has seen the video, and it's something that I feel like girls need to hear, and it's something I'm willing to share with people.
It's easy to love when you feel it, but love when it's hard to love. Gomez, meanwhile, posts a pic of the leading guy in her video. Bieber unfollows her on Instagram shortly after. In MayGomez will reveal she can't perform that song anymore.
That stuff is a little bit more difficult. Eeeeekkkk -Fundamentals of Caregiving!! The music video comes out months later in June. Fans find Gomez's name in the graffiti. May Bieber and Gomez attend the Met Gala separately.
Gomez's friend Vanessa Hudgens later says she was helping keep Gomez away from Bieber. I mean, no one really wants to see your ex boyfriend Gomez and Bieber are Snapchatted at dinner together with friends later that month, sparking reconciliation rumors. August Gomez makes her first appeal for people to get over her and Bieber. She defends her actions during that relationship: "I didn't think I was doing anything bad by falling in love. There's such an emphasis on people being the perfect thing and then destroying them because it's good press.
September Gomez and Bieber, about to drop new albums and both single, start doing press for them. They talk a lot about each other. When they got dinner with friends in May, they were "genuinely" friends. We're too young for that. Nobody was married. There was no. I respect him. And I think he respects me, in a healthy manner.
Bieber covers Complex magazine and reveals he and Gomez were much more serious than people knew. He brings back the quote he Instagrammed in Novemberright after they broke up: "Love is a choice. Bieber, who has debuted a new, more sensitive, humble, and likable side to him during his public apology tour that summeris applauded by Gomez.
I'm like, duh! October Gomez's new album Revival comes out. Bieber will reveal in November he didn't listen to it then-and still hasn't two months later, either.
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I don't know what she's saying about me. A new duet featuring Gomez and Bieber leaks and is promptly remove sparking reconciliation rumors. It's reported later it was recorded years before, while they were dating. Bieber goes on vacation in Bora Bora with model Jayde Pierce.
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November Purpose comes out. This is the month in interviews that Bieber makes it abundantly clear he's not over Gomez. I don't think if you end a relationship, you should end that, unless it was super toxic and you guys were hurting each other physically or mentally.
We always respected each other and we still respect each other. He tells DeGeneres maybe they'd get back together. But I think we're both just on our own journeys of just figuring ourselves out and I think maybe once we figure ourselves out we can come together and make an awesome duo or you know, she'll find someone awesome; I'll find someone awesome. I just want her to be happy, honestly. But the Jelena reconciliation rumor really sparked at the end of the month.
They're photographed walking together after. Pure magic. December Bieber posts the first of his "crazy throwback" photos of Gomez, sending the Internet and Drake into a frenzy. Just a throwback calm down. Crazy throwback. Gomez performs during the Victoria's Secret fashion show, which airs December 8. Outlets speculate she's dating One Direction's Niall Horan after they're photographed together. During the broadcast of it, she makes it clear who she prefers-Horan to Bieber-with one meme like and one comment.
Days later, she publicly friendzones Horan. When asked whether she's dating him, she says "Oh my god! I love him, I always have. He's amazing. Bieber, meanwhile, is reported to be hooking up with Kourtney Kardashian. They both never really confirm or deny that very convincingly. Gomez spends her New Year's with rumored boyfriend Samuel Krost and friends.
They're spotted holding hands out in January. Gomez attempts to give the last word on Bieber, tired of discussing him in interviews about her music and finding herself outside of him. Bieber echoes that, in a December interview that comes out Jan. I love [Selena]. We're friends still. We needed time to grow for ourselves and we were like, 'Maybe we'll come back together in the future,' and then it ended up being so long and we just grew apart and we're not the same people anymore. February Gomez tries again to end the Jelena discussion, explaining the toll the tabloid rumors had taken on her to W magazine : "At first I didn't care.
To me it was: I'm 18, I have a boyfriend, we look cute together, we like that. Then I got my heart broken and I cared. Because people had no idea what was going on, but everywhere it was a million different things.
Oct 23, Bieber then started dating Hailey Baldwin again in June They got engaged in July, married legally in September , and married again in . Oct 23, Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber had a long relationship in the spotlight and while they have been broken up for quite a while now, it seems like their old relationship is still affecting them to Occupation: Entertainment Editor. Jan 27, Bieber and Gomez touched down in Jamaica together ahead of Bieber's father Jeremy Bieber's wedding in February Sources told PEOPLE the Author: Grace Gavilanes.
Then she says it again: It's over. I honestly am so done.
I care about his health and well-being. But I can't do it anymore. Bieber, meanwhile, covers fireemblemheroestips.com magazine. He talks about how he is trying to erase the tattoo he has of Gomez. March Baldwin and Bieber are reported to have ended their romance and are just close friends. Bieber kicks off his Purpose world tour-and, in the hopes of convincing Gomez to come watch one of his Los Angeles shows, he posts another throwback of them.
It becomes Instagram's most liked photo. Gomez likes it then. She responds to his caption "Feels" with "Perfect. Three days later, Gomez attends Bieber's Purpose tour.
News reports he was going to rent out Staples Center after-where the concert was-to show Titanic to her and recreate one of their more viral, heyday dates. That doesn't happen. He reportedly just takes her home instead. Sources tell TMZ they're really just friends for nowbut there's unresolved feelings.
Things could change once their tours end.
Bieber ends the month by liking a photo of Gomez clad in a bikini on a piano. May Gomez begins her Revival tour in Las Vegas.
Fans speculate Bieber may have left her a voicemail her opening night from New York City when footage comes out of him wishing someone luck on the phone. Gomez debuts "Feel Me," on stage, a song that seems to be about "crazy throwback" Bieber.
This is the sign Selena took and crumpled pic. Gomez tells Marie Claire that the Bieber ex label makes her feel defeated. I would leave a room feeling defeated, feeling embarrassed, but I would always make sure to put that smile on my face because I wasn't going to let them get to me. She and Perry shut the tabloid rumors down:.
June Bieber re-follows Gomez on Instagram. Jelena fans celebrate. Justin Bieber followed Selena Gomez on instagram pic. When you thinking Justin and Selena are dating low key. Snake confirms Gomez recorded her own version. A Bieber-only one is released. Pattie Mallette, Bieber's mother, wishes Gomez a happy birthday on Twitter to everyone's surprise and gives Jelena fans hope with one liked tweet:.
A birdie told me it was your birthday selenagomez.
Many tweets from the bird or may have been several birds maybe? Don't let them get to you. Gomez repeats again in a new interviewnever naming names, that Bieber has hurt her career. So it makes it a little harder for people to take me seriously. Bieber goes on vacation in Hawaii, where more nude photos of him are released alongside a bunch of blonde models.
But the reunion didn't last long, with Gomez sending out a cryptic, since-deleted tweet the following month: "We have to learn the hard way sometimes.
I think it was really hard," she said. In DecemberBieber posted a series of Instagram snapshots while on vacation with model Hailey Baldwin. The getaway prompted speculation of a new romance, which Bieber quickly shut down, writing on his Instagram : "People are crazy. I'm super single and this is my good friend u would know otherwise [sic].
Although their romance was short-lived, Gomez harbors no bad blood for her Zedd. Meanwhile, Bieber is rumored to be romantically linked to a variety of female celebs, from Kourtney Kardashian and Kendall Jenner to model Jayde Pierce.
It's no secret Bieber's had a troubled past filled with altercations, outbursts and run-ins with the law, but September seemed to serve as his comeback - and Gomez was all for it, as she revealed in a interview with the New York Times. At one of her May performances during her Revival tour, Gomez took a fan's sign that read "Marry Justin Please" and crumpled it without verbally acknowledging the message.
Apr 12, Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez have been on and the off and then on again so many times, it's hard to keep track of their relationship status. Here's everything you Author: Carolyn Twersky.
The incident was caught on video and quickly went viral. In AugustBieber threatened to leave Instagram after his rumored relationship with Sofia Richie was met with criticism from fans. Gomez quickly weighed in with her own bit of advice. They love you and supported you before any one ever did. Gomez eventually took to her Snapchat to apologize for her initial comment. Talk about a happy new year!
In JanuaryGomez and The Weeknd were spotted together for the first time, kicking off a whirlwind romance that would span 10 months. They made their red carpet debut at the Met Gala that May.
The "Bad Liar" singer explained a little further, saying, "It's too much pressure, and I think everyone gets over everything eventually I just want to be happy. If that's me just being myself, then I don't really care. Following their month romance, Gomez - who, in Septemberrevealed she underwent a kidney transplant - and The Weeknd called it quits that October. That wasn't easy on them. Before news of Gomez and The Weeknd's uncoupling was revealed, the "Fetish" singer was seen spending time with Bieber.
The former flames continued to fuel reconciliation rumors in the wake of Gomez's split from The Weeknd. They went bike riding together, and Gomez was seen cheering Bieber on at his hockey game - even sporting the singer's New Jersey Devils hockey jersey.
He hopes to regain her trust so they can get back together. Gomez and Bieber continued seeing each other - but kept their dates low-key. After being photographed multiple times together riding bikesheading to dinner and attending church"they just backed off a little from being out there," a source told PEOPLE.
They have had quiet date nights at home and outings to local, low-key spots. They are still catching up and just enjoy hanging out.
They have learned from past mistakes and are not putting any pressure on each other. Things are much different and more mature.
In DecemberGomez and mom Mandy Teefey unfollowed each other on Instagrambut a source close to the family shared with PEOPLE exclusively that the mother-daughter duo's recent estrangement is not just because of the singer's reunion with Bieber. It's been hard on Selena. She really believes Justin has changed and wishes her family would trust her.
Gomez and Bieber were seen together the week before celebrating Valentine's Day together at church and, later, at the Montage in Beverly Hills. Gomez chose a very special day to make her on-again romance with Bieber Instagram-official: his birthday.
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Boom," she captioned the 'gram, which was shared with her million followers. The two were spotted at the same church service in March - but did not sit together inside. A source close to the "Sorry" singer told PEOPLE the reunited couple - whom another insider confirms were never "officially" back together - are taking a breather.
And despite reports that the couple split because of Gomez's mom's disapproval of the relationship, a source told PEOPLE Mandy Teefey had nothing to do with the pair's hiatus. They have their own issues and are always on and off," said a source about the couple, who first dated in Though he had been spotted with Selena in Marchthe "Sorry" singer started dating Hailey Baldwin in Junemarrying the model in September of the same year.